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At this point I'm more or less convinced that this "soft boy" shit or whatever is something white Twitter made up because they're incapable of doing anything useful.
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If anything, the fact that non traditional expressions of masculinity always get some special name is part of the problem. If you ID as a man you are one. Doesn't matter if you're outgoing or shy, confident or insecure, assertive or accommodating. It's all masculinity